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Waiting for Marriage Equity

Karol Collymore


I imagine it is hard seeing other states and our neighboring state of Washington pass marriage equity laws while our liberal bastion of Portland still treats our LGBTQ community as separate. Actually, I know it’s hard.

I watch dear friends committed and in love, wanting to be married. They can’t get married in Oregon. I watch them in their homes, going on vacations and raising their children, and wearing rings. But THAT ring – the “Every kiss begins with K” that taunt us in commercials and that blubbery guy on the radio who apparently has the best diamonds in Oregon – that ring can’t happen where we live. It breaks my heart. I could marry my cousin if I wanted without a care (or a drivers license) but same sex couples have to show ID and get a notary-approved document just to have a domestic partnership at their local county offices.

Something is clearly wrong with this picture.

I was frustrated when Basic Rights Oregon decided against a ballot measure in 2012 to repeal the constitutional amendment that allowed bigotry a permanent place in our state. I thought, “I’m ready to fight!” My feathers and feathers of many of you were ruffled. I can’t contemplate a state like Iowa passing marriage equity while Oregon waits in the wings. I mean…I can put a bird on it but not a ring on it? But passion alone does not win elections. And passion alone won’t repeal a constitutional amendment and add another amendment at the same time, in the same year, without drama. That is the hard reality of our ballot measure process.

I support Basic Rights Oregon – our only statewide political organization focused solely on LGBTQ equity – in their decision to wait to launch the marriage equity battle. As a loyal supporter said to them: “Waiting is hard. Failing is harder." Failing is hard and it has repercussions farther than our safe city of Portland. The lesson of Measure 36 was that we have to make sure there is money and support to protect every person that supports equity and any attempt to repeal political action can be defended. We are heeding that lesson.

So here is what you can do now: Talk to the people in your lives about what marriage equity means to you. If you are straight, realize the power that you have to change the opinion of people in your life. Support organizations dedicated to political change so that when a marriage equity campaign is ready to launch, it will be fully funded and able to take on any challenge from those who wish to continue to use our personal lives as weapons against acceptance and progress.

It hurts, but if we lay the right groundwork we can make the change permanent. Let’s celebrate our neighbors to the north and let’s make sure they can celebrate us in 2014.

Jan. 26, 2012 | Karol Collymore | 4 comments
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